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Let’s break down the Intimacy With Ease™ Method and see how it transform your sex life

Pillar #1: DISCOVER

We have to start by understanding exactly why you’re stuck and what’s complicating your sex life. Then, we have to replace unrealistic expectations and misinformation with a new understanding of sex and sexual desire so that you are set up to succeed.

But just because you have this new paradigm doesn’t mean your partner is on the same page. You have to learn how to approach and align with them to really make a change in your sex life.

Pillar #2: ALIGN

It’s crucial that you approach your partner as an ally, committed to creating a sex life that is easy and fun for both of you. This pillar is all about how to communicate effectively and what kind of expectations you should have of yourself (and your partner). You also get to focus on individual accountability – so important in making any change – by unpacking what you bring to the problems and identify what you need to work on. Your partner can do this, too.

But just because you’re committed to a win/win and are set up to work as a team doesn’t mean you can make any changes. You have to know what to DO to make things better.

Pillar #3: PRACTICE

Change doesn’t happen just because we have understanding. We have to learn to behave differently. But we also need a plan for exactly what to do to make the changes we want to see. We need to know what we’re practicing and how to most effectively do it.

But practice and experience won’t get you the kind of transformation you want unless you are able learn from your experiences. It’s crucial to integrate this new way of being.

Pillar #4: ENJOY

To make this process work – and stick – we need to learn from what we’re doing. We need to use our experiences to guide progress and maintain it, creating permanent change in our ability to enjoy our sex life with our partner. Without this, we backslide. If you’ve ever worked on your sex life before but were unable to keep it up, this is what you’ve been missing.

This part of the method is all reaching actual breakthroughs that will make permanent change.

Introducing Intimacy With Ease™

I’ve taken everything I’ve learned as an AASECT certified sex therapist and the experiences I’ve had working with hundreds and hundreds of couples over the years to craft a program to help you transform your sex life into something you both look forward to.

Intimacy With Ease is not just a description of the problem and what’s got you stuck; it’s an implementation program that walks you through a process where you can change your experience.

The end result: ease and joy in your sex life that will help you adapt to any challenges you face now or in the future.

What’s Covered?

SECTION ONE: DISCOVER

Module One: Understanding the Problem

The first step is to understand that you are not broken, that your struggles are common and normal. This is crucial to create both relief and hope for the process ahead.

• Video 1: Understanding How You Got Here
• Video 2: How to Identify Specific Factors That Make Your Sex Life Even More Difficult
• Video Three: Understanding the Expectations That Set You Up to Fail
• Video Four: Your Action Steps

Module Two: Changing Your Mindset

This lays the powerful foundation for your new sex life – understanding what sex is, how it works, and the nature of sexual desire. What you learn here frees you from any feelings of failure.

• Video 1: Defining Sex for Success
• Video 2: Navigating Differences in Desire Seamlessly
• Video Three: The Key to Understanding Sexual Desire
• Video Four: Your Action Steps

SECTION TWO: ALIGN

Module Three: Work as a Team

Aligning with your partner involves working well as a team, knowing how to communicate effectively, and sharing the same perspective on relationship skills. This module will teach you exactly that.

• Video 1: How to Operate as the Best Team
• Video 2: The Communication Power Tools that Avert Conflict

Module Four: Your Side of the Court

While you’ll work with your partner in this process, the only thing you can change is yourself. This module helps you identify what you’re bringing to the table and what you’ll want to focus on moving forward.

• Video 1: Examine Your Family Background and Release What Doesn’t Serve You
• Video 2: Learn How Your Relationship and Sexual History Relates to Your Path Forward
• Video 3: Discover Your Unique Dance Around Sex so You Can Change Your Steps
• Video 4: Getting Clear on Exactly What You Want to Change
• Video 5: Your Action Steps

SECTION THREE: PRACTICE

Module Five: Your Tool for Change

We can’t make change with insight alone; we have to learn to behave and think differently. This is the powerful part of the program where you put all these ideas into action.

• Video 1: Removing and Mitigating the Obstacles You Face
• Video 2: Using an Exercise to Create Exactly the Change You Want to See
• Video 3: The Eight Things to Practice That Will Transform Your Sex Life
• Video 4: Your Action Steps

SECTION FOUR: ENJOY

Module Six: Keep Your Progress Going

This is where it all comes together, where you fully integrate everything you’ve learned. You will discover how to take what happens for you and use it to continue to make progress, creating true transformation.

• Video 1: Using the Exercise for Growth
• Video 2: How to Get to Breakthroughs
• Video 3: Another Way to Approach the Exercise for More Change
• Video 4: Exploring Eroticism to Up the Interest
• Video 5: Your Action Steps

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